Starts With You Coaching

I'm a Marriage Coach focused on marriages that have one spouse who isn't invested on working on things or making the marriage better, or are on the brink of divorce. I learned these lessons the hard way in my own marriage, and the change all started when I stopped pointing the finger blaming my spouse and started taking personal responsibility to create the change. After making this change, we don't argue like we used to, we're not distant, we have more passion than ever, and finally have the marriage we dreamt was possible.

Since then, I've developed a process to enable this same transformation in my clients' marriages, which is covered in my book "It Starts With You: The Secret to a Passionate Marriage & Peaceful Home (Even if Your Spouse Doesn't Want to Change)".

The biggest underlying problem in marriage that leads to Divorce is not having a process for resolving hurts, which results in building anger and resentment, and turns into toxicity and/or withdrawing.

-Chris Parsons, Professional Marriage Coach